Advice & Practical Tips

A collection of lessons and tips from myself and guest authors. I hope these help you on your journey.

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April 25, 2024

Deborah Romero

Sex & Disability

I was recently talking to a loved one and was surprised by their sincere curiosity about my sexuality. This loved one knows how difficult my life has been struggling with the physical challenges...

April 22, 2024

Ellen McDowell

Advice on Parenthood from Parents with Chronic Illnesses

One of the most difficult questions someone with a chronic illness can face is the question of parenthood. Millions of questions, doubts, and insecurities flood our mind when we start thinking of...

March 11, 2024

Ellen McDowell

ASMR as a Pain Reliever for Rheumatoid Arthritis

While many know ASMR for its ability to induce tingling sensations and relaxation, its potential as a pain reliever, sleep aid, and anxiety reducer for RA patients is often overlooked...

March 1, 2024

Ellen McDowell

Your RA Starter Pack

If you're just beginning your RA journey, there are some products that I would argue you absolutely need. You'll need them because even though they won't take away your pain or symptoms, they will...

February 28, 2024

Ellen McDowell

What I Do At The Start Of A Flare

I've got to give my husband credit for this entire post. You see, I'm a Taurus: lazy at heart, not much of a planner, carefree to the point of self-sabotage. Thankfully, I married a Virgo moon...

February 22, 2024

Ellen McDowell

4 Ways to Simplify Your Life in a Flare

It's week two of a horrible flare. You're sleep deprived and feel like a shell of your normal self. There are some things that just don't matter when you're in survival mode, but they aren't always...

February 16, 2024

Ellen McDowell

Talking to Your Doctor When You Have Anxiety & Brain Fog

I've dealt with social anxiety for most of my life. When I started seeing a rheumatologist regularly, I struggled to effectively communicate. I was afraid of talking too much, saying the wrong...

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