Join the Flare Family Discord!

It takes a village to manage chronic illness, and unfortunately that village is non-existent for many of us.

Flare Family exists so you can begin to create a village in your city. Get to know other chronically ill folks who can come to you for support and offer it back when you need it.

You can choose to keep your village entirely online or meet up with friends IRL.
A mockup of a Discord chat. The chat is dialogue between two members of the Discord discussing a bad flare and plans to help with dinner.

FAQs

πŸ“… When is the Flare Family Discord launch date?
πŸ“‹ Why is there an application?
🀲 What does support look like?
πŸ‘€ How much will other members know about me?
πŸ‘― What's the best way to connect with members in-person?
🏑 I don't live in a big city, will I still have a group?
πŸ’œ I don't have a chronic illness but I still want to help.
πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ Is Flare Family only in the US?

Community Guidelines

I agree to adhere to these rules so that all members of the community feel welcome and safe:

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  • I will not offer medical advice to other members. (You can always share your own experiences with medications, doctors, etc. but you may not advise another member on medical issues.)
  • I will not bring up or discuss religion. (Saying you will pray for someone to feel better, etc, is okay.)
  • I will not bring up politics. (The only exception is if you are sharing information regarding legislation that impacts the disabled community).
  • I will not comment on a member's diet/eating habits or offer unsolicited advice regarding food/diets.
  • I will be gracious about what is offered to me and I will show gratitude to those helping me. If I don't want the help being offered, I will kindly decline the offer.
  • I will give without strings attached. I will not ask for money in exchange for my support or expect the support I give to be reciprocated in the same way.
  • I will not bully, intimidate, harass, or harm another member in any way, either online or in-person. I understand that hateful rhetoric against groups of people will not be tolerated.
  • I will not play "sick olympics" where I compare my pain/experience to someone else in a negative way.
  • I will support all members regardless of our differences.
  • I will not post copyrighted material.

Application

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